My Grandmother
I only remember my Grandmother
As an old irritating woman
I have no memory of her
As the beautiful young girl
She was
My Grandfather
Died when my Mother was young
I looked at the pictures
Slightly blurred
Sepia toned
The face of a man
Looked back at me
I man I did not know
I remember seeing a photo
Of my Mother
When she was about three
My Grandfather was standing
Over her
On the sidewalk in front of
Their house
He was a large man
With a great stomach
I wonder how my Grandparents met
What they thought when they did
Was it love at first sight
Were they happy
Did my Grandmother really
Want children
Or would she have liked
To have lived another way
My Mother kept
The beautiful little
Pierced plate
In the cupboard
When she got it out
She would tell how
My Grandmother
Prepared Communion
On the little place
With grapes painted on it
Each Sunday
For thirty seven years
Since my Grandfather
Died so long ago
My Grandmother
Lived alone
Was she lonely
Did she cry herself to sleep at night
I wonder how she did it
So many things I would
Have liked to have asked her
Note: I think I was a bit of a brat, growing up, always in a hurry… no time, just to sit and think, always busy. I’m sorry now, I didn’t know how to ask my Grandmother all the things I wanted to know….
Claudia asked us to write a poem and ask questions of someone famous, or someone else…
sometimes it’s the little things that give us clues about their view on life..i like all the little details you weave in, the photo, the pierced plate… sometimes i ask my mom about my grandparents and she tells me the one or other story..
oh and fixed your link at dVerse..it was broken..
Anne–oh, this was so beautiful, and sad. I know how you feel, and am sorry for both of our missed opportunities.
Yes sometimes we do not get to take advantage of time woth grandparents, or anyone for that matter. Very touching write. I liked it a lot!
mmm,,,yeah, i think i would have spent more time at my grandfathers side if i knew he would be gone by the time i was ten…he was a fireman…i remember his smell…he was big on respect and authority, but had a kind heart as well….
You were a lucky boy! Annell Livingston HC 74 Box 21860 El Prado, NM 87529
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so much to think about
Thanks for your comment. Annell Livingston HC 74 Box 21860 El Prado, NM 87529
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Isn’t it sad when the grandparants you never knew… you would have liked to meet them at their prime. I have seen pictures of a beautiful young woman who was my grandmother… and I only knew her as a wrinkled old lady…
I am not proud of the way I didn’t want to spend time with my Grandmother, oh, if only I could do it over. I know she had much to teach and I much to learn. Annell Livingston HC 74 Box 21860 El Prado, NM 87529
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My last grandparent died when I was six. It really is sad when children don’t have an opportunity to get to know grandparents. It is sad when one can’t ask the questions one would want to ask. We have to remember to ask questions of those in our life who are alive….while they are alive.
Whenever they die, it is just too soon….thanks Mary! Annell Livingston HC 74 Box 21860 El Prado, NM 87529
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Oh my, yes, I missed out on so much with all of my grandparents as well, I suppose when you are young you just don’t think to ask these things, if you even have the time before they are gone. I like to ask my mom to tell her stories now, and learn bits and pieces about them through her. But how wonderful it would be to go back for a day and have a conversation with them in person.
I think it’s normal for kids to take those things for granted… the loved ones and their inner beings, getting to really know them. It’s only with age and wisdom that we appreciate these things… and think we all have similar regrets.
Thank you so much for taking the time to let me know! Annell Livingston HC 74 Box 21860 El Prado, NM 87529
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I hope and wonder if our grandchildren, by reading our blogs will some day begin to understand some of who we are/were. I understand this feeling of aching for more…
Absolutely authentic and heart-wrenching and more-so heart warming – you prove unequivocally that love never dies – no matter whether or not we carry regrets or grief – love – your love here for your grandmother ripples through your words – It is said by the scientists that “matter and energy never die” and so somewhere in your words, in your articulation of your thoughts and in your sharing of these beautiful words your questions are heard and your answers received. Wow- this poem really opened the flood-gates for me – I’m tempted to not post this long-winded comment – but perhaps you will enjoy, if nothing else, the thought and emotion you evoked. Bravo!
You are so right Sherry. Thanks for your comment. Annell Livingston HC 74 Box 21860 El Prado, NM 87529
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Loved this, Annell. I always love poems that look back into the past and its beloved long gone people. I spent so much time with my grandma both as a small child and again in her last 20 years. No matter how many stories she told me, I still regret that I didnt ask her EVERYTHING – and record it all. Soon no one in the family will remember her stories…..so sad.
Yes, thanks so much. Annell Livingston HC 74 Box 21860 El Prado, NM 87529
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..they had such great memories for us to tap into…and even though we had the tape recorder before they went we still didn’t use it…I regret that too…..understand